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    I've come at a heavy crossroads in my life. I'm both interested and uninterested in sex. I am interested in that I have a very high libido (and have since I was 12), so I'm in a state of arousal at least 2-3 times a day. I'm uninterested or rather...something else...in that I do not find sex appealing on a non-aroused standpoint. Well that and the fact that I do not feel like I am ready on a mental level for it.

    And it's a very confusing place for me to be, since I am and am not interested in sex. I suppose I'm only interested as a spectator and not a participator at the moment, but isn't that odd? It seems like most people prefer it the other way around..

    I'm also feeling a slight pressure (from no one, but possibly myself) to lose my virginity so that I can have that experience and because I feel like if someone knows I'm a virgin...they'll think less of me. No idea why, but its a new thought that's come to mind.

    So yeah....is there something wrong with me?

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    I still have my virginity. The only reason I haven't had sex is because I've been single since I graduated High school and just havent found the right partner yet. I keep telling myself I need to just go for it and get laid at my next furry convention, but single female furries aren't exactly plentiful. my biggest problem is the fact that I always end up as cougar bait. I've lost count of how many 40 yr old women have hit on me over the years!
    In my honest opinion, don't let others pressure you into having sex. If you arent ready, then don't force yourself to do something you know you don't want to do. I myself find that occasional masturbation helps to satisfy the pangs, and also lets me keep my virginity until the opportune moment arises.

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    Lets hear it for masturbation!!!!



    Does that count if you're Asexual?


    A lot will say it's not normal if you don't have a sexual attraction towards the opposite sex, but even in the animal kingdom there are species in particular groups that choose not to.

    But it's always the same thing, if you do something that is outside the "norm" you will be ridiculed for it.

    Just ignore those people.
    Last edited by Speck; 10-Sep-2013 at 12:14.

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    maybe I should become a sperm donor. I hear that the clinics pay upwards of $60 a donation around here.... lol Imagine how many babyfurs I could create with my DNA:p

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    Man, if I had done that I would never have to work again. Lol, I should be in porn

    Y'know, the funny thing is, is I am a rather sexually active person but I am still a virgin because I have no interest in the opposite sex or same sex for that matter so I consider myself Asexual.

    Maybe I am substituting to much.

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    Quote Originally Posted by StrawberryRaven View Post
    So yeah....is there something wrong with me?
    I'll answer your last point first, No, there is nothing wrong with you.

    Sexual desire is a completely personal mindset that many people find strange and confusing. The society we live in is over sexualized and this has lead to heightening the perception that everyone is 'at it like rabbits' as well as filling our day to day world with sexual encounters with provocative images.

    Its no wonder people find it difficult to separate themselves from this unrealistic portrayal of sex and really understand what they personally want.

    Over the years I've talked to a few workmates about 'losing their virginity' and after ignoring the male bravado that pervades any of these stories it usually transpires that a lot of them were teenage fumblings with little real pleasure than 'getting the job done'.

    Personally I'd much rather have waited to find someone who really wanted to explore sex with me than go on a crusade to tick a box that said 'I done it'

    Be rest assured that everything is up to you, the only pressure you need to consider is what you desire and all the outside influences can wait for you to be ready.

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    Hey there i have been having the same thoughts as in if someone knows I'm a virgin...they may think less of me. It is a really hard place to be as one side wants to find some and get busy But then the other side is like holding on to being a virgin. It really is confusing but there is really nothing wrong with you at all. This may have not help't but i'm still trying to figure it all out my self. Hugs Leo

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    Quote Originally Posted by IdentyCrisis View Post
    Man, if I had done that I would never have to work again. Lol, I should be in porn

    Y'know, the funny thing is, is I am a rather sexually active person but I am still a virgin and consider myself Asexual.

    Maybe I am substituting to much.
    Unfortunately Donating sperm isnt as easy as one might think. they limit how much you can donate within a given time period, much like blood or plasma. they also do some screening to make sure you are a good healthy candidate.

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    Damn, and here I was thinking I could retire, lol.

    But yeah there are protocols to follow.

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    Quote Originally Posted by StrawberryRaven View Post
    I've come at a heavy crossroads in my life. I'm both interested and uninterested in sex. I am interested in that I have a very high libido (and have since I was 12), so I'm in a state of arousal at least 2-3 times a day. I'm uninterested or rather...something else...in that I do not find sex appealing on a non-aroused standpoint. Well that and the fact that I do not feel like I am ready on a mental level for it.

    And it's a very confusing place for me to be, since I am and am not interested in sex. I suppose I'm only interested as a spectator and not a participator at the moment, but isn't that odd? It seems like most people prefer it the other way around..

    I'm also feeling a slight pressure (from no one, but possibly myself) to lose my virginity so that I can have that experience and because I feel like if someone knows I'm a virgin...they'll think less of me. No idea why, but its a new thought that's come to mind.

    So yeah....is there something wrong with me?
    Assuming your profile is accurate and you're a physical female, that sounds like most women I've known. Hot and cold.

    Sex for the sake of sex is way overrated, especially (at the risk of being flamed as a sexist) for women, given that getting off is a more convoluted, and chancy, process than it is for guys. Wrong place in the hormone cycle, or wrong emotional mindset, nothing a guy does is going to get you there. Unlike guys, who can generally rub it (or stick it in you) for 30 seconds and get off no matter what's happening around them.

    Hot and cold? Every guy with any experience knows that's part of the female package.

    Given all the downsides and risks to sex vs. the almost nonexistent chance that your first time will be pleasant much less mindblowing, you're better off waiting until you have reasons to do it other than just getting your cherry popped.

    Think less of you? Unlikely. Tell any guy, in just about any context, that you're a virgin and don't want to be anymore. See what happens.

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