I recently met and have become partners with a man that I love very much. I quickly discovered that he is incontinent and must wear 24/7. This led to him telling me very early in our relationship that he is part of the ABDL community and considers himself a Little. We've mostly just talked about it while we continued our blossoming relationship but now it's time for us to explore that facet more deeply. He is part of this forum and said I could give his username here - He is waslost1234abc. My head is full of questions and I'm looking for some answers, guidance, and inspiration... General advice will be very helpful but some specific things I'm thinking about are...
1) How do we incorporate this Daddy and Little relationship into our daily lives while we're at home?
2) ... and the same question for when we are out... (like at church, at the grocery store, traveling in the care on a day trip, etc.)
3) Some of the ABDL items that I'm familiar with are Diapers (of course,) Teddy Bear, Pacifier, young jewelry with typical baby-characters, etc. What other "Items" are common and fun?
4) I should mention that my partner/little is AB and, although we have a healthy and fulfilling sex life, he does NOT incorporate/associate any AB activities with sexual activities. What's the best way to keep the two separate?
... and any other advice will be greatly appreciated.