Question, I just barely fit into an abena xplus medium - as a matter of fact I had to loose fourteen pounds to be able to do so. Would a large be wayyy to big for me? Nothing is worse than an ill fitting (and thus leaky) diaper. I want to loose more weight, but I don't know if I should go with medium or large for my next order. I think in a few months I will be firmly in medium territory, but I am not there yet.