hey all! my name is Erika and i just became a mommy for the first time for my best friend. i was completely ignorant to the AB/DL community before i met him a few months ago, and am still quite inexperienced. i want to be the best mommy i can be, but i'm not 100% sure how to. so i thought i'd ask you guys for some help! i'm trying to come up with some rules for my little boy and some possible punishments if those rules are disobeyed. any sort of input would be fantastic. thank you!!