Ok I tend to sleep with my pacifier a couple nights a week and my mother never really bothers me but I forgot to do dish's. So she naturally comes in and wakes me up that's all well and good but I had my paci in this morning. She just kept on talking without hesitation about dish's so she either knows and has looked it up on the internet or she is vary good at hiding how shocked she is. What should I do? We are a vary open minded family but how do I explain.