So, I have been lurking for a week-ish (shame on me) and last night I finally lost my Nappy virginity! I enjoyed it greatly and since it seems I will be sticking with it (In fact #2 is currently in action). I thought it was time to declare myself.
So I am an academic working in a university, I study physics, and work more hours than i care to admit! I am a fairly quiet but devoutly loyal person who doesn't know how to use the word 'no' enough. I don't own a car which can be a bind living out in the sticks but I have a bike I use for traveling and making the 6 mile commute to work
Why am I here. As with everybody that's complicated. I guess by most standards I am a very late starter I wasn't really aware of my interest in ABDL until I was 19 when for no good reason I manufactured a make shift nappy out of various household items (though I was never brave enough to road test it!). Since I have occasionally repeated the exercise and seeing some documentaries really put me back on the path. I guess I always dismissed these antics as quickly as I could due to fear, shame. But the increased web presence of the ABDL community made me accept that it wasn't so wrong and after mustering my courage by lurking and reading all the encouraging words on this website I finally did the thing I had wanted to do these past 6 years. I bought myself my first nappies and It was great! Thank-you all for your, inadvertent, help! Thank you Thank you Thank you.
In my spare time I enjoy playing Viola with a local amateur orchestra as well as playing for other events on an ad hoc basis, supporting local am-dram things fund raisers, play days, whatever turns up really. I collect DC Thomson comics (That's the Beano, Dandy etc. for the Brits out there and for the Americans just a warning there are no super-heroes in sight! well accept Bananaman but he doesn't count). I am a whisky fiend and enjoy a dram several times a week. Used to be big on the Speysides but recently have been drawn to the dark side (the very observant might notice a link with the name. If you like to Nag A Ram. It's what I had on my desk when I was inventing a name). Yep that's me!
What am I looking for? well, continued support and talking to like minded people is always great! Tips and tricks passing down the generations too. I'm also hoping to gain more of an understanding of 'what' I am. I lie on the AB-DL spectrum but haven't really worked out where. So far I have been enjoying nappies (sorry I said it again) and have had a nice set of footed PJ's for a while though I didn't particularly buy them with AB in mind (at least not consciously). I am interest in a lot of the other AB aspects clothing, dummies etc. but I'm not sure I could ever 'regress' in any real sense. Frankly time is an issue, but I think my inner toddler is so cowed I couldn't dig him out enough for that in several lifetimes. That said I am currently enjoying indulging my inner child in other small ways like brightly coloured cartoon underwear(TMI?) which is a big step from the usual functional but dull fare my draw is full of. Anyway it's a way for me to explore my newly released ABism in the wider world, nappies don't currently pass the front door. Who knows it's a road of discovery and I'm looking forward to the journey.