My mother and I are very close and this adult baby thing is difficult to keep secret. For the most part it's the fact that it is the first secret that with any luck she won't find out until I am ready for her too.
I plan on leaving clues but I want to be very careful that she does not figure it out too soon. In other words I need advice on how to give her the sinking fealing of the truth.
It would be nice if two or three years pass where my bladder has shrunk and I have proven that I am capable of keeping it a secret from people. I want to prove that I will be able to live by her version of normal. When she asks the question she will be ready to accept my decision.
She is a therapist and she has seen people that are IC. She also understands that I like cartoons and what many people would consider girly. To her this is fine so long as I am not inhibiting my ability to live life happy and healthy. That I will still be able to do the things I set out to do. I plan on being a Luther and I firmly believe that I will still be able to even if I may wear diapers 24/7