A couple months ago, I posted about my issues trying to tell my wife about my neutral DL tendencies. Lately I've had a very rough time between underemployment and grad school stress and I've had the urge to wear and I came out during a late night confessional. To put it lightly, she's conflicted.
She finds the urge for a grown man to wear diapers to be "creepy" and she thinks it's indicitive of supressed issues which could be addressed elsewhere. It also seems to be going against her "marrying a man" given how (my words) "I sometimes feel like I'm 2 down there." She is willing to let me wear with some ground rules - no messing, no wearing out of the house, she isn't fond of wetting - but she doesn't get why I'd like to wear. I tried to give the feeling of protection and warmth but her response is akin to "diapers don't exist to protect you, they exist to protect clothes and other things."
What do I do here? Just wear? Talk it over further? This was a huge bombshell I should've told her a few years ago before we married and on top of other things it's stressing her out. Any help please?