Within 2 hours GMT +08:00 Hong Kong, Singapore time, I will turn 22 this year. In my recent post , I wrote about my guilt trip about being an AB/DL and recent break up with my current girlfriend. Although I'm still on my lows, I did a long thought on my life. Being AB is just one part of me that I have to accept and deal with it. I believe everything you do must have a moderation, a limit that you need to give to yourself that "hey you know what?, you have reached to its limits, I think it is cool to chill and focus on what is your goal". Thus I have to focus on my goals and be matured about any situation that I'm in. However I have to admit on my emotion EQ of dealing with things that I faced, I'm not good at it. Therefore when things got worse ( or I think it is getting worse) I start to regress real bad and I would be at my lowest point. So What are your views on being an AB / DL as you grew older?