As I will have a way to get secure shipping soon I am looking to upgrade from the Certainties I am using to a higher quality diaper. I have a couple issues that make the diaper articles on here helpful, but missing a couple details I need. Combine a varicose vein in a testicle with shrinkage when wearing and I find the stream is very high up on the diaper and the flow is often obstructed. This was an issue last night as I leaked badly when I had one of my rare wetting incidents from high blood sugar
I figure to correct this I would need a combination of
1: Tight gather where the leg meets the crotch or a wide crotch on the diaper
2: Padding high up on the diaper
3: Very fast absorption or a channel in the middle to help direct the absorption.
4: padding further out on the sides would be a bonus, but less important than the other three.
Can anyone direct me to a couple of brands available in the US that would meet these requirements? While I would prefer cloth backed for it's discreteness, preventing any more leaks means enough to me at this point to increase the risk of being caught.