One of the comments I heard in my 30's was " Oh you're to young to be having those kinds of problems" Got news for those people I have had 'Those " kinds of problems all my life.
Besides being the butt of some jokes by people who have the mentality of school children. It took me a long time to build up the courage to do something about my not being able to hold it to long. Sure I was wearing a diaper at night for bed wetting but I wasn't to keen on wearing during the day to. But I did give in. But I let comments by other people get to me and would stop wearing for a while then wear again then stop. In the end the only person that was hurt by me not wearing diapers was me. Wetting your pants does something to your self esteem .
If people would have had the guts to ask why I was wearing diapers I would have gladly told them. Bladder control problems are hard to put up with with out having BS comments on top of it.
Now that I am in my 60's if my diaper were spotted not much would be thought because it is more Acceptable of someone of my age to be using one. Just where does the age of someone come into this.