I hate to break the affirming nature of this board but I'd like to tell this story because it may act as a precautionary note to other DL's out there.
I'm a 62 year old male DL.
About a year ago, I decided that I wanted to try wetting at night and waking up in a wet diaper. I usually pee standing up, during the day.
One night, I woke up to wet and as I started to pee, I felt a sharp, excruciating pain in my groin area. I reached down into my diaper and grabbed and shook my pee pee and the pain went away. However, the same thing happened again a few nights later.
About a week later, I developed persistent pain (4 on a scale of 10) in my groin and ended up at the urologist. I didn't mention my diaper experience to him. After several visits, he diagnosed it as prostatitis and said that what had happened was that my 'flow' was blocked and backing up into my prostate. He recommended laser surgery. I said no.
The thing is that I believe what happened was that the tip of my pee pee was pressed into a fold in the diaper, blocking the flow as I tried to wet. This caused the pee to backup into my prostate and ultimately the prostatitis.
Prostatitis is a condition that involves inflammation of the prostate. The pain made me not want to 'cum' for several weeks and when I finally did, it was a dark color and had an odd smell, obviously inflammation.
It has taken me a full year to fully recover from this and the pain slowly diminished over a six month period.