Let's face it, my guess is that most of us probably do not have a partner who is willing to baby us for any period of time. We are alone in this world even if our partner knows and accepts our desires. The consequences of this have bothered me for some time, but in the end it all comes down to this. I am in a parent-child relationship with myself. Meaning I am the one who changes me, feeds me, washes me, buys toys for me, etc. I am also the one who benefits from these things.
This can be frustrating because there are no outside controls regarding my behavior. The controls and the responsibility come from within. Now I'm not saying I would like to be babied 24-7, but to give up that control every now and then would be nice. Wouldn't you agree?