My wife and I aren't yet parents, but its on the roadmap. I'd like to know if any of us are at least a DL with kids in the house and what challenges you face.
I'm very open with my wife about being an AB/DL (though 95% DL, so that I imagine makes things easier) and she supports it. I had told her about it as we started dating, so it's nothing new to her and we have an understanding of it being in moderation which for us it works well.
We haven't yet discussed what will happen to that understanding when we start having kids. I'm eager to hear of your experiences and choices or if you have any questions for me.
I don't post much, but it's always comforting just knowing that this community is here when it's needed. Thank you for that.