So there are a lot of articles here and on other sites about how to tell your signifigant other about your fetish. In response, there are a lot more tales of success and even a few from the point of view of the SO. With all of that there are suprisingly few accounts of rejection.
I made a thread a little over a week ago detailing my struggle and how I eventually told my girlfriend. I can tell you it was a resounding success. By far, it has been the best experience of my life. Today my girlfriend showed my a Dear Prudence article. Wherein the SO was less than receptive.
Read it here:
Advice on manners and morals (May 29, 2008). - Slate Magazine
After reading it, we both couldn't help but wonder if my tiny story played any part in this man's eventual reveal. I doubt it but the timing and reach of this forum is hard to discount.
I hope this lady's reaction is rare. I kind of feel bad for the guy.