I think I might be headed for a bit of a stormy ride with work. I'm self employed in the building trades and am urge IC. It's not uncommon to be working 8-10 hours a day without washroom facilities and as such I usually go through a couple of diaper changes in a day. Just this week I changed from goodnites which were discreet to Tenas, which are bulkier but work a lot better. I thought that they were still discreet but yesterday some nosy neighborhood resident starts blabbing to me, "that 'hypothetically' if I were to wear a diaper while working around that site would I really think it would go unnoticed, and if I were to do that do I honestly believe that I'd still have a job to come back to?" I tried confronting the issue asking what he meant without giving away the fact that I have IC but he just kept changing the topic. This is either an incredible coincidence and he's unknowingly being a jerk to those of us with IC, (or maybe he was referring to the ABDL crowd, I don't know) or he figured out that I'm wearing and is being an even greater jerk. Now this guy is just a spectator in the sense that he is not in any position of authority, he does however talk to the people who hired me, including the general contractor for this site whom I get a fair amount of work from. I can usually find a discreet place to change, but maybe the backpack is giving it away, although its not like I carry it around everywhere I go, I just treat it like my lunch bag. Nobody else has ever said anything before. What do I do now, I don't know what this guy does or doesn't know, who he has told or will tell, what spin he will put on it and how it will affect one of my larger working connections. At the same time I really don't want to preemptively go public with my IC. Arrrgghh!