Well, as the title suggests i told my partner about my secret lifestyle. He is the only one that i have told in my entire life. I will admit, i was scared in the beginning although it panned out nicely. I had to tell him as i didnt want our relationship going further without me being able to tell him deep secrets and that would affect the trust between us and also because of the fact we are looking at houses to move in together and i wouldnt want him walking in on me in action.
Surprisingly no alcohol was needed although i did have to do it through sms. I guess i was too embarrassed to do it face to face. I told him and then after a few questions gave him website addresses to go on and check for himself. He was baffled when he first heard the term "adult baby" however with myself speaking to him and with him checking out websites such as understanding infantilsm he quickly learnt the true meaning behind it and that is isnt all about sex and one thing that i hate, paedophilia.
In the end he replied that as long as it keeps me happy then it wont matter to him. He was glad i told him as he now knows i can trust him with anything in our relationship and he was proud of me for that. He has also told me things too in the past and i have been accepting of those too.
It has been strange though because ever since i have told him he has been saying things like, "have you dribbled?" whenever i am eating or drinking and then checking to see if i have and he has even remarked a few times saying, "you need a bib" jokingly. I will admit that i am a messy eater. He has also resorted to calling me "his wee man", for example, "is my wee man tired?" in the kind of voice that parents do to their children and more recently i told him i couldnt sleep and he told me to put my dummy in and that he would do it for me if he was beside me but he wasnt. Bemused i am at the way it has all panned out.
It is all just so unreal to have someone who is so accepting as him and to have someone to talk to in person about this side of me. I am so thankful to have him and i wouldnt change him for the world. For those who are still yet to tell their partner, i suggest you do it. It could work out the same way mine has.