So I have never really talked much to any one about this so sorry if I don't come across clear this is kinda new and weird for me. So I have always had a kind of bowel urge incontinence where if I need to go I need to go NOW or I'm having an accident, which I did a lot as a kid. So now I'm in my twenties and it still hasn't changed much. What has helped is the fact that with my job and tons of hobbies and starting collage I only eat once or twice a day so it kinda slows the whole process down. So the problem comes into play that when I have a normal diet the same old problem comes about. A few years ago When I got my own place I decided to trying diapers, and it did help tons I didn't have to worry or stress about it as much if it happened it happened and my clothes were still fine. I guess where I'm going with this is I just feel odd or bad or weird or something. I don't know how to explain it about wearing them. So I don't often. Plus I have no idea how to even explain this to my mom who has a huge part in my life and would end up finding out some how. I mean she knew that I use to have accidents every day as a kid I just never could explain why and got better hiding it as I got older. So is this just a weird me thing or is it kinda common. Is there even a right answer for this? Should I even be wearing them or need them gah Idk. I guess i just need to talk about it?