I'm very new to the ABDL scene. I recently stumbled across my husband's stash while cleaning and discovered his secret adult baby life. I had never heard of anything like it before so needless to say it was a shock to me. We have been married for several years and have been together for over 10 years. He is the smartest, sweetest, most handsome guy I know. he and I both have successful careers in our respective fields. We have a great, fairly normal, heterosexual relationship. We are both strong Christians and are very active in our church. We like going to concerts and sports games and going to wineries and pubs. Just a very normal couple.
I have been searching the internet trying to find out more information about ABDLs and found this site. I really want to try to understand his desire to be a baby girl. I feel like I am ok with it some days and the next it scares me because I don't want it to change things with us. He has told me that he doesn't feel ashamed but I still feel like he isn't ready to share all of it with me yet...or maybe he thinks I can't handle knowing everything...not sure.
So anyways, I just wanted to be able to contact someone else who is in a similar situation to me and maybe get some advice and hear others experiences. I had thought of going to a therapist but the more I read on the internet it seems that even psychologists don't have any real answers on the subject.
I'm open to any and all suggestions!