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    Well, last week I put a bambino classico diaper in my pillow case for that night...I went to work and my pillow case was changed Needless to say they obviously saw it Now on Sunday my dad asked me what it was for...(keep in mind they work 1st shift i work 2nd shift) and why they keep finding them I'm getting to the point where the stress of this is killing me... I just want to tell them but I am unsure of how about I would do this; considering my parents are already freaked out a lot. I am so unsure of what to do that I feel as though if I don't tell them I am lying to myself and lying to them... I am currently thinking when they go out of town on a mini vacation I might send a text to my mother about this whole ordeal but I am very unsure...

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    Brandon,

    I think we have two issues at hand here:

    1) your parents FINDING DIAPERS
    2) Privacy rights.

    you're 19 - you should be able to at least take care of your own room - like changing the bedding and stuff like that - there's NO need for your parents to go through your stuff.
    This is something you NEED to deal with anyhow.

    but alas some "damage" has been done... what now:
    As those diapers are pretty much "themed" (AB) (they're printed, aren't they?) - it basically leaves the "I've got some night time issues" option out of the book...
    In that case you've got like two options:
    1) Tell them to mind their own business, that this is a private matter - fetish related - and frankly none of their concern. Let them know you're healthy and that you don't bother what kind of sexual kinks either of them has.
    2) explain.

    But whatever: DON't do it by TEXTING them on their Holiday... (it basically could ruin the mini-vacation for them and TEXTING IS LIMITED and really will not give you a chance to get it right).
    write a letter and place it somewhere your mom can find it--- but I'd seek a personal dialog preferably.

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    Living with family is hard, most will snoop thru your shit no matter how old you are. If your going to tell them, dont do it in a text. A text wont convey the seriousness that doing it in person will

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    Let's not get too far off on a tangent about privacy. You're living in their house, and unless you're paying rent, you only have whatever right to privacy you've previously agreed to with your folks.

    Now, the good news is that you've got a job and you don't sound like a misfit, so you've got some positive things to talk with you folks about. You can take the wimpy road and text them (and I agree with EP01, don't ruin their vacation) or write a letter, or you can man up and have a face-to-face conversation with them. It doesn't have to be long or detailed. It could start:

    "Mom, Dad, can we talk? I know you've found things in my room and you don't understand why I have them. I know you're concerned and I appreciate that. I don't have a medical issue, I just like them. It's harmless, but a bit embarrassing to talk about. Perhaps you can treat my room as private space from now on if I agree to wash my sheets and clean for myself?"

    Also, did they take the diaper, or did they leave it behind?

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    Quote Originally Posted by BrandonF View Post
    Well, last week I put a bambino classico diaper in my pillow case for that night...I went to work and my pillow case was changed Needless to say they obviously saw it Now on Sunday my dad asked me what it was for...(keep in mind they work 1st shift i work 2nd shift) and why they keep finding them I'm getting to the point where the stress of this is killing me... I just want to tell them but I am unsure of how about I would do this; considering my parents are already freaked out a lot. I am so unsure of what to do that I feel as though if I don't tell them I am lying to myself and lying to them... I am currently thinking when they go out of town on a mini vacation I might send a text to my mother about this whole ordeal but I am very unsure...
    May I ask what you've already said to them? E.g. when your Dad asked you?

    I can't speak for your parents since I don't know them, but taking them aside for a calm, reasoned and mature discussion (where you sit them down and tell them "we are going to have a calm, reasoned and mature discussion") may be the best way to deal with this. If you do, make sure you know what you're going to say before you say it...

    Like I say, you know your situation and I don't; but now there is an elephant in the room it's probably better to tackle it head on than leaving it to smash the crockery! Good luck.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ultrapampers View Post
    Let's not get too far off on a tangent about privacy. You're living in their house, and unless you're paying rent, you only have whatever right to privacy you've previously agreed to with your folks.

    Now, the good news is that you've got a job and you don't sound like a misfit, so you've got some positive things to talk with you folks about. You can take the wimpy road and text them (and I agree with EP01, don't ruin their vacation) or write a letter, or you can man up and have a face-to-face conversation with them. It doesn't have to be long or detailed. It could start:

    "Mom, Dad, can we talk? I know you've found things in my room and you don't understand why I have them. I know you're concerned and I appreciate that. I don't have a medical issue, I just like them. It's harmless, but a bit embarrassing to talk about. Perhaps you can treat my room as private space from now on if I agree to wash my sheets and clean for myself?"

    Also, did they take the diaper, or did they leave it behind?
    I really agree with this. I got caught by my parents when I was 22 and was forced to have "the talk". In their defense, I was having a psychotic break and they also found gay porn. We both were on emotional overload, and my mom sent me to a psychiatrist at a mental residential facility. Your situation is much better than that.

    I would wait for them to bring the subject up. If they don't, they don't want to discuss it, possibly realizing it for what it is. Most parents don't want graphic details of what turns their children on sexually. If they do bring it up, have a clear understanding in your own mind as to what motivates you to wear and want diapers. The less said is a better approach, in my opinion. As Ultrapampers said, you can explain it as something which gives you comfort. You could explain that it's a form of regression, that it takes you to a time that was simpler and safe. Explain that becoming an adult with adult demands exerts emotional demands and pressures, and that this has surfaced as a way of coping. It hurts no one, and assure them that it doesn't rule or dominate your life. It a coping mechanism, like smoking. If they want to know more, there's a lot on Wikipedia, and Understanding Infantilism, if you/they want to go there.

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    I already wash my sheets and clean etc. I'm not exactly sure why my mom decided to change my pillow case anyways. When my father asked about it I just brushed it off saying that my friend just had a baby and I was gonna send it to him as a joke; conversation ended there. I believer I may just leave it be for now, considering only a few more months to a year until I move out anyways, why bother them with this type of thing. Also my mother left it there, but I believe she unfolded it and everything. Anyhow Thank you all for your fast responses.

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    I'm off and on between my DL stages, its because of the fear of parents finding such items, and they have in the past. But Recently I bought Two giant stuffed Animals, My love for them caused me to confront my parents on the "I can do what I want" issue, which seems to be your case.
    It's Best to just wait for the right moment and tell them that This is something that helps you cope with stress, or such else of what your case might be. Your also going to need to have some sort of ammunition for a defense if they don't accept the first thing you tell them. In my case with the stuffed animals, I have High functioning Autism and I told them that They help me with stress, anxiety, and in general to have a "Friend"; of which I have no real ones.

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    Buy a good lockable metal footlocker..
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    and keep it locked.

    I built mine in 1960s in high school metal shop and still have it and about 12 more that i use for storage and shipping.

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    I had this trouble too, except they found a whole bag of them. Lucky they didn't really press the subject saying that they didn't want to know. Hopefully they won't continue to go through your stuff, but you have to decide if you're willing to tell them by weighing the options. It's a though situation.

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