Hi! I' m babykittykat. I'm newer than new to the ABDL community and am here to learn lots of stuff. I'm kind of a babyfur, and still working out all of the words that fit this part of myself and where I am headed on this journey of
I come from a history of always being a big/caretaker & have been actively incorporating regression into my life in various forms since I was in my 20s. I've been involved in the Bay Area BDSM scene for over 8 years now and have always had an interest in ageplay and regression. It's only recently that I've been allowing myself to explore the more vulnerable sides of my desires. I see my interest in ABDL and this forum as creating/allowing myself a safe space for self-care and understanding. And of course to make new friends too!
I only have one other ABDL friend, but he is going to Mongolia for two whole years at the end of this month. And that makes me sad. I thought if I made other friends like him, maybe I wouldn't be as lonely?
My interests, oh my! Well, I'm very sparkly and do lots of sparkly things that make people happy. As in yes I *actually* sparkle (it's pretty cool & not like Twilight), but also I'm a performer and I love fantasy & theater makeup, glitter, drag performance, circus arts, dancing, singing, reading a good high fantasy book, dogs, and riding my bike. I'm pretty nerdy and introverted, until I get dressed up and then I really enjoy interacting with people. I'm a DJ, nightlife promoter and fundraiser for the LGBTIQQXYZ community here in the Bay as well!
I like moving my body. I'm taking circus classes: contortion & handbalancing and teaching myself how to juggle and make balloon animals. I'm developing my face painting skills because I have a plan to become more well-known as one of my clown personas and am going to start performing at littles public play parties (non-sexual ageplay parties) and private events as well as actual children's events. I'm also a member of a clown troupe dance company here in the Bay and I love it very much.
I'm also crafty (not the mean kind, honest!) and am learning how to sew and want to DIY as much of my own baby gear if possible. I'll be raiding any tutorials in the very near future, you can bet on that. If there are any other DIYers out there, I'd love to talk shop!
I am looking to learn primarily from those who are on this site about what works for them and how they view ABDL. I'm opinionated, focused on positive self-growth and am seeking what works for me. If it resonates and helps me love myself I'm all about it! If not, then I know how to politely disengage and find another sandbox to play in. Of course, I would love to make a few close connections/friendships with members if that happens to come about, but it's okay if not. ^_^
It's nice to meet you all. <3