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Thread: Objectification of Women in the ABDL community

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    Default Objectification of Women in the ABDL community

    So, as I'm cruising diapermates tonight, I notice that lots of the most popular pictures are of women. That in and of itself is no big surprise as the population is rather disproportionate with males having the largest group. But, some of the comments on these pictures are horrendous! Does anyone else feel that women are objectified in the ABDL community? Do you think that is part of the reason we have a small number of women?

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    Quote Originally Posted by TARDISchaser View Post
    Do you think that is part of the reason we have a small number of women?
    Nah. It seems pretty clear that most of those with ABDL tendencies are male. Further, a large number of these have a sexual attraction to diapers. Consequently, a diaper-related community is going to be a community where some significant portion of the mostly-male membership shows up stoned on their hormones. And where that happens, there will be porn, unless the rules and mods/admins say otherwise.

    For better or for worse.

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    When women put them selves up for the objectifying, you can't really blame the men. Women naturally sell themselves to those that are interested in their own ways. Not particularly porn but among other things. They tend to make themselves attractive to those that are interested. Some species, it's the male selling themselves for a mate. While the comments seem horrible, some women are into that kind of thing.

    I don't think that's the reason why we out number women in this lifestyle. It's kind of hard to say why really. To me it seems that women are the dominating sex. Look at all the Dom sites on the internet, It's mostly women dominating men. Men are usually the ones being dominated.

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    Considering diapers are a fetish for many people, and fetishists in general tend to objectify women, I wouldn't consider this something unique to the ABDL community.

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    Seeing attractive women in fetish photography that they willingly put out there of themselves was what made me realize that it was okay for girls to be into this stuff too. When it comes to amateur stuff and paid modeling where the girls actually really enjoy what they're doing, I think quality fetish photography is actually a really good thing for bringing more girls in.

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    most strait men would rather look at women in diapers then other men in diapers

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    Quote Originally Posted by TARDISchaser View Post
    But, some of the comments on these pictures are horrendous! Does anyone else feel that women are objectified in the ABDL community?
    I don't necessarily disagree with you, but maybe you could tell us what you think is wrong with the comments, and how you define objectification?

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    I don't think I disagree with you... with a website that is porn/mate finding it doesn't really surprise me that men would do that. Maybe it's why we don't see a lot of women AB/DL as there really is out there?

    I don't really know, but is why this site is so perfect for just chilling and discussing without the worry of pervy people coming to get you and being around sex :P

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    Women get objectified in every sexual-themed site, no matter the sexual theme, by a minority of the men out there who have no respect for women at all. ABDL community is no exception.

    That is why there are sites like this which ban that @#$%.

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