So my boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. He's my everything and I adore him. He "came out" to me as a DL a while ago. I am completely supportive of him because I know he's comforted by it and it makes him happy. As much as I want to encourage him every way possible I do have two slight issues.
First off, he has made vague mention that for the most part, it's about comfort for him but that it's also partly sexual. I get the feeling that he wants to add it to our sex life but I'm at a loss. I'm not entirely sure where to go with it since the entire AB/DL world is new to me, and he never elaborates on it though, which is understandable because I know he still trying to get used to being open about it with someone (I'm almost positive that I'm the only person he's ever told). If he does want to do so I would like to at least attempt to since I know it'll make him happy. Anyone with advice on how to move forward with this?
Secondly, he has also suggested the idea of me joining him in his lifestyle. Now I'm not completely against the idea. I don't think I would hate it however I also don't think I would enjoy it, specifically in the way he enjoys it and I'm worried of that disappointing him. He has left the decision to me and made it clear that he won't ever force me to try it but he isn't all that good at hiding his desire that I'll say yes. I really don't want to get his hopes up if I'm pretty certain that it isn't going to end the way he wants. I thought of maybe trying it on my own so that I'll be prepared and know what to expect when I participate with him. Any thoughts?