First off...thank you for allowing me to be a part of this forum. I am a Southern Girl who is incontinent and has personally accepted it. I embrace my diapers now because they are part of who I am. When I first started having "leaks", I searched for answers. I found some answers from doctors but most came from online. While searching online, I found there is a fetish for people who love diapers and love being a baby; I thought it was crazy to want to wear a diaper when you don't have to. The more I investigated , the more I understood where everyone was coming from. I now consider myself a diaper lover and want to share answers with those who are incontinent, those who are curious about diapers, and those who have a fetish for diapers. While I am shy (I'm not discussing diapers face-to-face), I have no problem discussing anything you want to know. Can't wait to meet new people and share experiences!