Last week, I got my new Nuk 5 pacifier for first time and I really enjoy it. I assumed my wife will be okay with this because she seem fine with me wearing diapers (as long as I am home alone). Apparently, she doesn't and said "pacifier is too much". Then later on, she said "I was hoping you will outgrow all of this by the time you are 30." Btw, I am just 5 months away from hitting 30. I told her, "I don't think that will going to happen. I wear diapers on and off for past more than 22 years... too long and hard to let it go. I already accepted it's part of me." She look very disappointed when I said that, then asked me if I would be still into that when I am 40, 50, 60 etc. I said, "I don't know but there are plenty of people on adisc that's older than me and they still wear diapers... no big deal."
Her acceptance of my DL side are sometimes confusing. Some times, she's fine with it, and while others, she doesn't. Any advice?