Warning: Random ranting
I've been thinking about this a lot lately: This fetish is all about indulgence. for me, currently, it represents a completely selfish act, an excluding act, since there is no ABDL in real life that I see a romantic potential with, so I do it alone.
This is an Annoying predicament. It's not that I can't have relationships with non-ABDL folk, it's just this is a big part of me and my sexuality.
Just bugs me, that's all