I found an interesting method to help in enjoying the flow or causing that constant feeling that your leaking.
Over the weekend I wore two pair of depends maximum mens diapers - the first one I cut slits into (lots) and the second one I put a tena overnight pad in with slits cut in the sticky part of the pad. I know DEPENDS lousy - however in peeing in the first one it did fill up quickly but it did have the additional enjoyment of feeling wet all over my butt. That wet feeling did seem to help lots in me having that continual feeling that I had a constant small flow.
This morning I put on the same layers. However I had a tena pad that was partly wet from wearing. This part is for the guys - One problem men have is how do you tuck so that when you pee the flow goes between your legs and you get the pleasure of it flowing back toward your butt. I generally will pull the penis so that it is like a long tube and tuck it between my legs. The problem then is the sack. The trick is to push the underside (part below the penis) so that it is not hanging. then to push the balls up inside you. Yes they will go inside you up in two pockets. Once this is done I pull the first diaper up making sure the penis is still tucked between the legs.
NOW the interesting part that i discovered. I took the wet pad and folded it so that the sticky part was together in a layer of three folds. Then I pushed it into the diaper so that it covered the area where the balls went into there pockets. That wet tena pad acted as a way to keep the balls pushed up and the penis pushed down. It also had the wonderful effect of making the area damp and the size put pressure on the top of the bladder. Thereby giving one the feeling that you need to go. The bladder seems to respond to this method - nice light bladder spasums.
The first diaper (no pad other than the folded up wet on just above the penis shaft), the second one (with a tena pad), and the third one (plastic outer layer) - then the plastic pants. NO worry about leaking with all that on.
The strange effect of the wet pad was that while driving and even sitting here at my desk I am getting a slight flow and contastant feeling of needing to go due to the dampness and pressure at the top of the bladder. I was driving and the next thing i knew I was peeing - wow no trying it just happen.
I have been working on just enjoying having me not pay any attention and the slow changes as mentally now when i put on a diaper i pee. I can hold it but dont i let it go.
From all I have read the trick is to just relax and to not force things - to take your time. However finding new ways to just make that feeling of constantly flowing or dripping is happing but using the relaxing method for me.