For any/all that are involved in a relationship/marriage: How do you deal with a significant other that you thought was accepting/understanding and found out that really isn't the case? I thought my fiancee was ok with me and my dl tendencies but time and our conversations have shown that really isn't the case.
I'm just so frustrated. Not with her, but with the situation. We've talked about it and she seems to have little to no interest in wearing or discussing. I don't want to force anything on her but long for us to wear or her to change/care for me.
I know she cares for me outside of that but now it's starting to stand out. I almost feel ashamed for wanting to wear or if I bring it up. Is this common?