I am happy to find this forum. I am an Adult Baby and have been as long as I can remember - until the internet came along I thought I was the only one. For the past 20 years I have been a very quiet lurker on AB/DL websites and a listserv, maybe because I'm scared, now that I am "on the spot" I am not sure what to say.
I like to be a good boy as a baby and my dream is to be cared for by a loving and nurturing mommy. Since I don't have one (I've never even had a girlfriend, the AB part of me made that seem impossible) I have used professionals. I especially like wearing diapers and toddler boy baby clothes.
I am also a person with a disability, cerebral palsy, but was pretty independent until 8 years ago when I injured my spinal cord. Now I need help with all kinds of personal care and wear a condom catheter and a "brief" in case it falls off. I need to keep good boundaries with my PCAs and others and make it clear I don't need babying. I do see my pro mommy a few times a month who feeds and diapers me for parts of a day and sometime we go on vacation.
For those of you who watched TV twenty years ago, my username says a bit about the rest of me. I love the outdoors, spirituality, and a sense of comunity. I work at a university where I help out with research on the quality of life of people with disabilities and we work to make it better.
Well, that is (part of) my story and I'm stickin' to it!