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    Default I finally got (somewhat) acceptance! :)

    sorry if this is in the wrong place

    I am 19 and have been a "baby" on and off since a house fire at age 5 caused me PTSD. My mom has never been too ok with it, especially since she was "scarred for life" by accidentally coming across infantalism porn while looking for potty training tips in the late 90's

    Today I finally stood up for myself and told my mom essentially "Mom, this is what infantalism is to me. I live this lifestyle only occasionally, and it's not a sexual thing like whatever you saw in that porno (no offense to anyone who does live that lifestyle, just not for me) and my therapist told me there's no reason to stop. You are my mother, and if you don't accept and respect me, than I see no reason to stay here.

    She thought a while and told me she doesn't understand me but she guesses she'll respect me. she even let me use her Babies R Us rewards card to buy some baby stuffs

    I've been waiting for this moment forever!

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    Way to go buddy, just try and keep it all in perspective. (I realize I've been blabbing to you in another thread... hey! it's good that your working towards acceptance) stay cool with your mom though, we need these people in our lives.

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    I'm trying, my moms just a bit ridiculous sometimes nothing feels better than a brand new Nuk though! babies r us is one of the few to still sell size 3, and since i'm not rich enough to buy the adult ones, the 3's have become a treat to me

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    Hi, pgfdp. Thank you for sharing this lightened moment of your life. I appreciate your honesty and upbeat attitude.

    This can definitely take some of the weight of worry off your shoulders.

    I'm sorry you had an extremely traumatic occurrence in your life, but now you can express your feelings in a more healthy and open environment.

    Just know that if you choose to live the lifestyle, remember to keep it respectable and clean.

    I am confident if you can show your mother you're responsible in handling yourself, you will gain respect over time. This includes diaper waste, and keeping a clean room and body.

    Eventually, you should have no problem enjoying ABDL culture.

    Enjoy, and congratulations. You're on the way to a pleasant and strong-willed future with a powerful voice.

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    Congratulations my dear madam! Here's hoping that this opens some new opportunistic for you in this lifestyle now that your mother is more open about it and you no longer have to keep it a secret from her

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    Quote Originally Posted by pgfdp View Post
    sorry if this is in the wrong place

    I am 19 and have been a "baby" on and off since a house fire at age 5 caused me PTSD. My mom has never been too ok with it, especially since she was "scarred for life" by accidentally coming across infantalism porn while looking for potty training tips in the late 90's

    Today I finally stood up for myself and told my mom essentially "Mom, this is what infantalism is to me. I live this lifestyle only occasionally, and it's not a sexual thing like whatever you saw in that porno (no offense to anyone who does live that lifestyle, just not for me) and my therapist told me there's no reason to stop. You are my mother, and if you don't accept and respect me, than I see no reason to stay here.

    She thought a while and told me she doesn't understand me but she guesses she'll respect me. she even let me use her Babies R Us rewards card to buy some baby stuffs

    I've been waiting for this moment forever!
    As everyone else has said, Congrats, BUT, I seem to think that by reading this, that, she had no choice but to accept you. You made it flat out clear to your mom, that if she didn't accept you that you would move out, now I know you are 19, but I am sure, she probably said yes, to keep you in the house, not for the actual AB/DL lifestyle. But congrats nonetheless.

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    Its good she is more accepting of it, and its even better that you got the chance to explain to her that what she found in the late 90s, is not what its about. Im sure for most it is because its a safe place where their heart can get some refuge and hopefully nurturing that is well needed

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    Quote Originally Posted by Naleas View Post
    As everyone else has said, Congrats, BUT, I seem to think that by reading this, that, she had no choice but to accept you. You made it flat out clear to your mom, that if she didn't accept you that you would move out, now I know you are 19, but I am sure, she probably said yes, to keep you in the house, not for the actual AB/DL lifestyle. But congrats nonetheless.
    Honestly, it was all but an empty threat and my mom knows it was. I have nowhere to go at the moment and she's paying for me to go to college, I was just angry. But she lightened up when I explained the house fire and some things I had seen and remembered that she didn't know about. Everything is mended in my household for now I assure you and I am free to do as I wish as long as I pay for it myself and keep it in my room.

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    Congrats and I am curious on one thing. If you bought a sleeper and wore under it, would it still count as being in your room as long as you're not purposfully making a ton of noise and wear the sleeper because you like to and it hides the diaper?

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    Quote Originally Posted by krone6 View Post
    Congrats and I am curious on one thing. If you bought a sleeper and wore under it, would it still count as being in your room as long as you're not purposfully making a ton of noise and wear the sleeper because you like to and it hides the diaper?
    hmmm i'm honestly not sure. you mean like a footed sleeper? footie PJs. Yes i love them anyway, AB or not but I wouldn't wear a diaper out of my room anyway

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