I met a baby boy online a while ago, and so for the past few months I've been his Mommy. We set up rules and everything right off the bat, and for a little while he was pretty frequently in a pretty "little" headspace. However, lately other than rules it's felt a little like we're completely missing the AB part of this thing. We're both very new to this, but with the (very few) online babies I've been a Mommy for before there was definately more of a focus on what I can pretty much only describe as "baby time". Should I try to engage him in that, or should I wait for him to tell me what he wants? I don't want to push him and make him uncomfortable, but I don't want him feeling like he can't let that part of himself out with me.