Hi guys, I've been mulling this over for a while and just wanted to get others ideas on the subject. I'll give a little back story in case it's needed:
My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly four years now, we've been together since we were 15 and still in a strong, loving relationship. We're at separate universities (around a 3 hour drive apart) but still manage to see each other every two weeks or so. I've been into AB/DL since before the relationship began but am more comfortable with my DL side and rarely do anything considered AB.
I ask that do you think that too much time has passed and I should have opened up to her before now? The thought worries me, but also I feel I could live with it being completely separate from our relationship if needs be. I'm honestly just looking for some advice from anyone that thinks they can help. If any more information is needed just ask .