I got burned pretty badly by an old counselor I used to see when I told him about my ABDL side. When I told him he started looking really uncomfortable and started rubbing his hands across the top of both legs. Then he told me I should find other non-weird ways to self soothe. It hurt my feelings so badly that I eventually switched counselors. Plus my ex-girlfriend didn't really like my ABDL side even though she never quite admitted it.
I now have a new counselor, a female, and I need to work through some of my struggles with my ABDL side. I'm just so damn scared to say anything to her because of my old counselor. I just don't know how to get over it and I really need to work through things with her but I just can't get myself to do it. I'm so afraid the same thing is going to happen with her.
Any words of wisdom?