I don't mean that in a nasty/disrespectful way or anything; watching that 'Two' documentary got me thinking...
Is there room for adulthood in an AB/DL way of life? And I don't mean just out of necessity. Of course we all have to do the adult existence to survive... But I was interested that the guy in 'Two' said he played at being adult but he was still 2 underneath it all. It was interesting that he seemed to struggle to keep a tidy house; I don't wanna over-read that but it certainly felt like he didn't really hold a strong adult perspective on his world.
Myself, I feel like I'm striking a good balance now I don't binge/purge and I have an accepting partner. I had a hell of a time figuring it out in my teens and my early 20s. I still love being an adult and doing adult things... For me, the other side of the coin is a release from that; a means to express the bliss of life without toil and responsibility.
What, if you don't mind me asking, are your experiences folks?