I'd like to get my non-abdl wife to wear diapers on a date with me. She won't even wear them in bed right now. I've told her I want her to go to the movies with me while wearing a diaper. When I told her I wanted her to pee in the diaper during the movie, she said "you lost me there." But I know she is turned on by risking getting seen naked or caught doing something sexual. I think simulating the risk of getting caught in public wearing a diaper that is obviously not just for medical needs might appeal to her.
So I'd really appreciate some suggestions. Here are a few specific questions I have:
-What kinds of diapers look childish and are also easy to hide? We have tried depends (too medical) and pampers(is that the brand? it's been a few years) pull-ups (uncomfortably small). I've been thinking maybe large goodnites would work...they go up to 125 lbs, and she's about 5'4" 160, dress size 10.
-What could she wear over it that gives only a very slight but real risk of showing the diaper?
-What is a good place for taking a small risk of getting caught?
-What is a good way to ask her to do this? She's very concerned that I'm mostly just getting off on humiliating her and feeling like I have power over her. How can I help her feel empowered and sexy while wearing a diaper?
-How do I make it so my desire for her to do more doesn't make me look unappreciative of what she is willing to do? In the past I have gotten greedy and made her uncomfortable to the point she tells me not to even discuss diapers anymore.
Thanks a lot everyone!