I have bedwetting problems due to stress from time to time, and half the time I leak out from the side of my diaper (since I sleep on my side, often in a fetal position). The padding never goes all the way around my side. If it did, I don't think I'd have much of a problem. I wear medium size Depends, because so far they are the most comfortable and "affordable" diapers I've come across. Are they perhaps too small? Is that the problem, or are all diapers like this?