My husband isn't ABDL and doesn't really roleplay with me or ageplay with me. He isn't against me using my paci in his presence and I recently found out he's not even against me wearing diapers in his presence. He told me he was just unsure about if there would be 'number two' involved, and I assured him there wouldn't be! I rarely even go number one in my diapers.
Anyways, all that being said, with a partner who doesn't really ageplay or have his own ABDL fantasies, whenever I am very upset or sick, he instinctually babies me. He'll bring down my pillow and my blankie, my teddy bear, he'll find my paci. He'll put on movies that I like to comfort me.
First of all I know I must have a very empathetic and caring husband. Of that I'm very grateful! But I was wondering if he's trying to tell me he doesn't mind participating and doesn't know how to unless I need attention. To make matters more unclear - he's not good at initiating ('normal') sex either. He's a bit shy about it, and sometimes will almost schedule it with me, like "Hey, um, so like tonight, if you want, if you want..." and so on. That's lucky if he does that. Normally I have to initiate.
Do you guys think my partner is trying to tell me he'd participate in mild nonsexual ageplay? Or is he just being really sweet and trying to help me when I feel bad? It kind of makes me want to fake feeling bad when I want to be babied! But that's awful, lol, I can't do that to the poor guy.