Is wearing loose fit jeans over Xplus Abena diapers a better choice than straight fit jeans in terms of comfort? It seems if the seat area of the loose fit jeans are larger, then people might see you have a bigger bulge or hiding something in your pants. Or, if I use the straight fit jeans, then would it be to constricting? What are your thoughts and experiences? I was at Walmart the other day at 10pm, and I was wearing just regular sweat pants and a hoodie with a medium xplus abena diaper. I couldn't hear the crinkle but man...i got a lot of stares and i just realized the butt area was waddling and way to much and sticking out just a little. As I was walking out of the line, I looked back and the cash register lady yelled something to the other cash register lady and just smiled at me. Geeze, my heart was racing and I turned beet red. I just kept on walking out as if I didn't see them. For some odd reason, it was like that mixture of that exciting feeling of nervousness and also embarassment. Yikes! What are your stories of being caught in public? Thanks for sharing guys!!!!