I'm really curious how those of you who are out to your partners came out and helped your partner come to terms with it. I told the guy I'm with not too long ago and he's probably sick of me asking if he has anything he wants to discuss with me about it. I'm really having a rough time with the whole acceptance thing on my side, because he's entirely okay with the fact and...well I'm not quite, which makes it a little hard for me.
I know that when I bring it up either accidentally or intentionally it feels really awkward to me to actually out and talk about it. I'm willing to, but I've kept it so hidden for so long that it's really hard for me to come out with anything and I'm really used to dealing with some pretty nasty intolerance for it. We are going to end up sharing an apartment next year with a few friends and at some point I'm going to end up wearing in front of him and that's going to be really hard for me to bring up with him and really hard for me to get comfortable doing around him. I also don't want to make him uncomfortable if the urge arises, although we're both comfortable enough to talk things through.
I'm curious to know how anyone else has dealt with this, since I'm sure that not all of us were simply able to just pull things out and completely be ourselves in front of other people.