I'm trying to figure out what the best option for me is with buying. I've worn Goodnites, and those are great, I've worn abenas and...didn't really like them. I'm basically limited (...right, "limited") to what I can get online provided the shipping is discreet, because I don't want to deal with the awkwardness of picking up an obviously marked package via my apartment complex's concierge services. No option to deliver to the door which I wouldn't want any way because I also have roommates. I'm looking to keep the cost down as much as possible.
I'm considering either buying a pack of depends or something on Amazon or grabbing a couple cloth AIOs. I feel like at this point in time the money would be better spent going for a couple cloth-type things because I don't have a ton of money and for now and at least next year, not a lot of opportunity to get things and with cloth I'll have them around for a while and I don't have to worry about getting rid of them (laundry is not a problem). Messing is not my thing, wetting I do occasionally but only when I'm at home, it's more for look and feel. For cloth I'm looking at Super Undies daytime pants and Baby Pants Almost a Big Kid. I'm hoping that the baby pants would be thin enough that if I wanted to I could wear them under clothes without it being noticeable, and the super undies would be mainly a night/not-leaving-my-room thing. Baby pants I can grab on amazon which is a plus, so I could instead grab two pairs of those (probably a pair of my first training pants as well as the almost a big kid ones).
The main thing for me right now is just having something to wear whether or not I actually use it, although it would be nice to have the option with an AIO. The thing too is that I'd like something with noticeable (to me) padding for when I do nights. I'd like to try to stick to amazon because they already have all my info and I've never had a problem with them shipping things obviously, but skinny (28-30'' waist) as I am if I go the super undies route, they only have the kid sizes so it would probably be safest for me to grab those from adultclothdiaperme.com instead and hope I don't trip my fraud protection.
So, if anyone could give me some advice, point me in a better direction, or whatnot that would be great.