Im really sorry if theres a thread like this one before, but i need some slightly specific advice and opinions.
After living alone, ive moved in with friends and as stress builds up during semester, im bound to wet the bed.
One flatmate is trustworthy, open minded and a true friend, so ive decided to tell her, only the need part (not the liking). Shes already aware that my room is sacred and forbidden, and that i have something i hide alot. im not telling the other, as i think just having one know will afford me the privacy i need and quick escapes when necessary.
Hence! is it okay if i just invite her in one night and see if she notices my padded bum? or do i need to say it during the day and discuss it? not so keen on discussing it.....
but i am lucky enough to know she'll be supportinve and understanding. i just dont know how to do it.