I am new to the DL world, having started to read this Forum for a mild bladder incontinence - slight leakage after peeing and sometimes when doing strenuous work, a spurt. It is a stressful time at work and I think it is all related.
I tried a liner first and then went on to a pull up. I am two weeks in and am hooked, but can only wear part time (a wife that does not know and would not understand).
The feeling of a fresh pull up whilst I am working on the computer, and then taking a few glasses of water, relaxing the sphincter and seeing how I can pee without that initial clinch is addictive. The ability to just pee anywhere is coming on , even out shopping, which is a buzz of a different kind. The tension flows away with the pee flowing in to the warm pull up. The feeling of relaxation from a warm diaper is hard to describe.
Great training advice from the community but it is 99% diaper based - not pull up. In the UK, supermarkets and pharmacies seem to only sell pull ups. I have just tried the Boots Staydri slip as my first diaper, the feeling is much more DL! and the capacity is so much more without leaks. However, I am still trying to gauge a full diaper with mixed success!.
My questions are why are diapers so difficult to find in the UK other than on the internet and are pull ups really that bad? I would go internet but for the credit card statement showing 'incontinence product' .