(Possible TMI warning)
I wasn't sure if I wanted to ask at first, but I figured you guys might have a suggestion. So... I enjoy messing, but I find that well, there simply isn't enough room in the diaper so that I can comfortably "finish". This may be mostly my fault for wetting so much before I attempt to mess (I use Abena L4s) but even dry I don't think they'd have much extra room. It's a pretty uncomfortable feeling, sometimes outright causing stomach pain, and besides actual cleanup is the main reason I don't do it more often.
I don't expect miracles, but I was wondering if anyone else has this experience and if you have any ideas. Perhaps advice on a different way to fasten the tapes or something. I try to keep it pretty tightly taped to avoid leaks when I wet, but that same setup seems to cause problems when messing... and it feels like a bit of a waste not to use the thing for both. Thoughts?