Well I just rejoined the website, and figured I couldn't withhold this story from you guys. I hope this gives some other people confidence in the future.
I met this woman on an online dating site, who we will call Sam for the purposes of this story. We went on our first date and hit it off immediately, and ended up kissing at the end of it. So I gave her my phone number and promised to text her later that night.
Fast forward about 2 weeks:
We were laying in my bed cuddling and asking each other questions about sex, since we had exhausted just about all other topics and were both comfortable enough with each other to discuss such things. Then Sam asked me the question; What is a sexual fantasy of yours??
Now, I've had long-term girlfriends that I never told about my liking to wear diapers, and Sam wasn't even my girlfriend. I don't know what compelled me to do it, but I ended up spilling the beans in a barely audible voice, saying "I like to wear diapers," shaking like a leaf the whole time fearing I had scared her away.
She was taken aback to say the least (and definitely not unexpected), but not scared. We discussed it a little bit and then changed the subject.
The next night Sam came over again and wanted to talk more about them. She seemed interested in finding out what could possibly cause a person to be into such a thing as wearing diapers. She was so interested that she actually hopped on some of the AB/DL sites to do some research. While we were discussing it the second time, she told me that she was perfectly okay with me wearing them sometimes, so long as I don't use them and I don't wear them too often. Seeing as how using diapers isn't my thing anyway and I don't have urges to wear more than a couple times a week at most these were easy terms to accept.
Since then, Sam has seen me in diapers twice, let me wear them to bed one of those times, and both times has... taken care of me while I wore them. She is also now my girlfriend and doesn't seem to have any intentions of breaking up with me b/c of this, saying "They're part of who you are. As long as you don't abuse the privilege I am okay with this."
I truly hope more AB/DL's can have a story like this. I'm posting this to hopefully show anyone who is convinced that they'll never find someone that can deal with the diapers that there are people out there who can accept this part of you. If this seemed like a brag post I apologize for that profusely, that was not my intention. Though I will say that the relief of not having to hide my diapers or my urges was worth the years I'm fairly sure were taken off my life when I told her, my heart was hammering at 1000 miles per minute XD