I am Nigel, an ab/dl from Hertfordshire, United Kingdom. I have been since I was 5 years old (so that's a long time!). On reflection, I consider myself to be about 30% ab and about 70% dl. All my adult baby tendencies are focused on being punished as a toddler / young child rather than being treated as an actual baby.
Many times in the past I have thrown away all my nappies and things in a futile attempt to rid myself of this fetish, only to find myself compelled to buy the whole caboodle over and over again at great expense. I have given that behaviour up now and accept that this is how I am.
After years of resistance I have come to the conclusion that I must meet, or at least talk to, others like me. So here I am on adisc.org
All the best.