Ok, so maybe its not quite that bad, but I'm pretty used to having everything together, so pardon the nerves if they show as I'm about as calm as a cat's tail in a rocking chair factory at the moment. I was drawn to this community for the absence of tacky xxx content and the genuine sense of care that seems to be present. There can be a sort of beauty in letting down one's guard and embracing vulnerability, and I see some of that present here.
I live in the Pacific Northwest and own a small woodworking company. I'm married to a good lady, and while there are no kids yet, we are thinking a puppy might be a nice addition to our "family" this summer. When I'm not working, (which I'm lucky enough to passionately enjoy my work most of the time), you can find me enjoying nature's best in the backcountry, usually with a camera in hand.
I have urge incontinence and haven't told anyone, not even my wife who knows everything else under the sun about me. Its normally been a minimal issue but has picked up these last couple years. I have seriously contemplated telling her, but... there's a lot of "what ifs" that can be played on something as large as this and I'm just not up to it at the moment. I'm sure everyone here can relate. She's pretty smart, maybe she knows and is just waiting for me, one can hope to be blessed with this kind of grace. Anyways, this has been my allure to Adisc, and truth be told I think I might be a little DL curious, which frightens me in a way, WHICH.... I find hard to understand considering that I did a couple of majors in university in the social sciences and I consider myself very liberal minded. Life's funny that way, we can be completely accepting of our friends and neighbours yet when it comes to our own self, we suddenly think we live in a glass house. Oh, the joys of socially induced confusion Anyways, I'm a newbie to all of this. Thanks for having a welcoming site.
One question right off the bat, is my email address that I used to register kept completely private?