Hi everyone, I am 28 years old, and I live in North Carolina. I have been married for 10 years, and my wife has no idea about this side of me. I am afraid that she will not be very accepting of this. I am also in the military, not exactly a life that is very conducive or accepting of something like this. I have had mild incontinence which i would wear guards or diapers for, and my wife was somewhat supportive of, but would also make comments that she wished I didn't have to wear them. Right now I just deal with the leaking. If you have any question, don't be shy to ask.