I'm an oldster 50+ married/NOT dating nor meeting and that remains a HARD LIMIT so long as I am married. Which will be till one of us dies. Hopefully me first? Selfish? naah...just romantic.
Life Long IBS C&D causing the unlovely nastiness of Encopresis had me using pads or tampons since pre-teens. And enemas to prevent the blockages/discomforts.
Cancer added urinary pressures. So its for random medical needs And worry of messes from them.
More detail in my Profile.
Above all else- I place Kindness.