My boyfriend recently told me about his DL tendencies, and at first I was pretty freaked out but the more I learn about it - the more harmless it seems. I love him and just want him to be happy so I have decided to support him on it. Just tried wearing one for the first time, and it really didnt freak me out like I thought it would. It turned hm on so much that it made me feel very sexy in return. I want to continue to explore the possiblities but am a little anxious about the actual use of the diapersfor what they are intended for if you know what i mean. Any tips for a beginner who wants to make this work?