My son will sometimes point to his potty and then tug at his diapers. I take them off him and sit him on it. I think that is a good sign because he seems to be showing interest in it. But he hasn't peed in it yet nor pooped. he just sits on it and nothing comes out. He did pee once in it back in October but it was only that one time and it was probably good timing, not that he was holding it. Back then he wasn't ready and showed no interest and now he is pointing to his potty.
This is a relief because it tells me despite that he has seen me in diapers, he is still interested in the potty and I have kept telling him every time I change his diaper if he would learn to use the potty like his dad and grandma and grandpa, he wouldn't have to get his butt wiped anymore or even have to get his diaper changed. Sometimes he hates getting his diaper changed because he then has to stop what he is doing and he doesn't like that. He doesn't like getting his butt wiped either nor when I dig in his butt hole as I wipe the poo off. So i tell him if he learns to use the potty and not wear diapers anymore, he won't have to deal with that anymore. I try and encourage him and now he seems to start showing interest.
Any incontinent parents on here had good luck toilet training their kids without any trouble despite being seen in diapers by them?
Even though I am not IC, it's still a good sign he is showing interest because that means me wearing them may not effect his toilet training.